Friday, April 02, 2010
Macaroon Season
Because of this project, iMinister has been invited to many seders and long ago developed a reputation for making amazing macaroons. Although all she did was follow a recipe from Cooks Magazine, her macaroons never failed to get rave reviews from her friend's mostly Jewish friends who claimed they had never imagined that macaroons could taste so good. It's a pretty easy recipe, once you've found the ingredients. Read carefully!
You will need:
1 cup cream of coconut (the stuff used to make pina coladas; you will find it with the alcoholic drink mixes.)
2T light corn syrup
4 large egg whites
2t. vanilla extract
1/2 t. salt
3 c. UNSWEETENED coconut, shredded (8 oz.) (try the health food store)
3 c. SWEETENED coconut, shredded (8 oz)
1. Preheat oven to 375 and line two cookie sheets with parchment and spray with cooking spray.
2. Combine the two kinds of coconut in a large bowl , break up lumps and toss with your fingers.
3. Combine the other ingredients well, and pour over the coconut and mix until evenly moistened
4. chill dough for 15 minutes
5. Drop heaping tablespoons of dough on the cookie sheets, 1 inch apart. Use your fingers to shape into little pyramids.
6. Bake until light golden brown, about 15 minutes, swapping trays if necessary for even baking.
7. Cool on cookies sheets 2 minutes before removing to cooling racks
8. Dip the bottoms of cooled cookies in melted chocolate chips if desired.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Facebook-Security
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
adddendum to Multi-site Bibliography
Sunday, March 28, 2010
The Blogger's Hot Stove, week II
This will be most of the news that's fit to print about the matchmaking between UU churches and ministers. Here is the list of candidates as far as I know them. I hear that five churches are still actively looking for candidates, and at least two have extended their search to another year. And it seems likely that lots of announcements were made in church this morning which have not been posted to websites yet.
Leslie Becknell Marx - Ashland,
Peter Boullata - 1st Parish Lexington
Eric Kaminetzky - Edmunds, Wa
Kathy Schmitz - Orlando, Fla
JD Benson and Mary Ganz - Brewster, MA
Tom Perchilik - Tacoma, Wa
Bill Sinkford - Portland, Or
Lois Van Leer - Woodenville, WA
Lilia Cuervo - Cambridge (associate)
Shana Lynngood and Melora Lynngood - Victoria, BC
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Facebook for Ministers -Boundaries
Boundaries
The most important thing to get clear on is that this world has "friends" and it has "facebookfriends", and they are not the same thing at all, even if the share a syllable. Ministers need to be careful about having "friends" in their congregations, that is to say, people the confide in, let their hair down with, giggle and share and travel with and so on. There are so many good reasons for ministers to be careful about having friends in the congregation that many ministers don't have friends in the congregation at all. These reasons include:
- Most people who actively court their ministers as friends don't really want to befriend the person who giggles and shares and travels, they want to befriend the MINISTER and partake, somehow, in the ministerial glitter. (or worse, use the ministerial glitter or the minister's ear to advance their agendas in the church, or, worst of all, what to befriend the minister to assure themselves that scary people like ministers are really just regular joes.) Any sensible minister avoids this like the plague for personal and professional reasons.
- Even when the minister develops relationships more naturally, with healthier persons who actually want to know the minister as a person, giggles and glitches and all, there will be some others, who, seeing this relationship, can become jealous and make the minister's professional life difficult.
- And when things go south politically in a church, among the very painful things for the minister is to lose friendships just when one most needed them or to see one's friends become estranged from their congregation because of their friendship with the congregation's minister.
"Facebookfriendship", however, is a completely different critter from friendship. Facebookfriendship is to real friendship what coffee hour is to an encounter group. Facebook is a way of keeping in touch, briefly and pleasantly, with aspects of people's lives in one sentence, one picture, one "read this that I've linked to" bites.
Does FacebookFriendship have boundary issues for ministers? It depends on what you post, not on who your Facebookfriends are. To my mind, the minister's Facebook life should be conducted the way the minister's semi-public life always is...carefully.
I think of it this way. If I was in a long airport security line and behind me was someone from my church...or even someone from my former church, I would not ignore them out of anxious concerns for boundaries or my privacy. We'd exchange news about the doings of our children, our gardens, our political opinions. We might mention things we were reading, how we are feeling, and talk politely about the people we know. That's the kind of stuff I put on my Facebook update.
So, my policy is I Facebookfriend anybody in my church who asks. Any UU who asks, actually. I set all of my security to "only friends can see this". I don't say anything I wouldn't say in the airport line or post any picture I wouldn't, under the right circumstances, show around at coffee hour. And I doubt that I will unbefirend people when I leave this church, any more than I would refuse to talk to them if I found myself in their company.
I only very occasionally leave comments on congregant's posts, although I do very often click "like" when they are reporting happy news. When I read things on congregant's posts which warrent a pastoral response, I send a private messange, an email, or pick up the phone. I've also used the live chat feature in what seemed to be dire circumstances. The point is that the minister doesn't play favorites or have "special" Facebookfriends, at least not on the public side of Facebook.
Therefore...nobody gets any "ministerglitter" from being my facebookfriend, any more than they get it from watching a video from the church website. It's there for everybody. Nobody gets jealous. There are no political implications. There is connection, but not real friendship. But those connections are interesting and valuable.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Why Facebook for Ministers?
One reason to be on Facebook is to interface with the many ministerial colleagues who are on Facebook. In terms of keeping us in touch with each other, our families, transitions, and daily lives, Facebook rocks. The UUMA Chat (email list) is fine for asking people's opinions of things. Facebook is for whose kids have graduated from preschool, whose parents are dying, who is having a rotten week, who has what hobbies. It's for sharing links to articles and crowing over the perfect sermon title. It's quick to post, quick to read, quick to comment on. I feel MUCH more connected to my colleagues than I ever have before.
A second reason to be on Facebook is that the people of our churches are on Facebook, from the 9 year olds to the 70 year olds. They, too, are commenting about what they are reading, how they are feeling, what's going on with their parents and kids, what the stresses and joys of their lives are. The savvy pastor can, in minutes, respond to those things with a quick click on "like", or easily send a private message of support or congratulations. The preacher who is wondering what her people are thinking and worrying about will be very interested in the links they post, and enriched by reading the articles and comments.
A third reason to be on Facebook is that if you serve a mid-sized or larger church, only some of your congregation will have the opportunity to know you the way all would in a smaller congregation...that is, know about your children, your parents, your hobbies, your reading interests. They might ask you about such things if they caught you around church in an idle moment, and you'd probably respond, but...they mostly can't get to you. Through Facebook, they can see the public side of the minister's life. They like that.
A fourth reason to be on Facebook is that your church should have a page on Facebook, for the same reason it has a website; people will look for it and use it to get information and work up their courage to visit. If you want to see that page, you need a Facebook account. The fact that the minister has a Facebook page is an important signal to trend-setting Facebook users, that this church and its leaders are a part of the culture in the 21st century. You want to appeal to anybody under 50 and many over, you want to send that signal.
A final reason to be on Facebook is that the wise minister has fun, and lots of people find Facebook to be a fun way to keep up with friends, relatives, and culture, and they use it as a platform for computer games. Speaking for myself, I love knowing what my niece and nephew are up to and there's nothing as relaxing after difficult board meetings than working on my Farmville virtual crops. But...that's optional.
Guest Postings
Monday, March 22, 2010
Blogger's Hot Stove
Leslie Becknell Marx - Ashland,
Peter Boullata - 1st Parish Lexington
Eric Kaminetzky - Edmunds, Wa
Kathy Schmitz - Orlando, Fla
JD Benson and Mary Ganz - Brewster, MA
Tom Perchilik - Tacoma, Wa
Bill Sinkford - Portland, Or
Lois Van Leer - Woodinville, WA
Lilia Cuervo - Cambridge (associate
Shana Lynngood and Melora Lynngood - Victoria, BC
Friday, March 12, 2010
Hot Stove II: The Cooperative Enterprise
| Church in Search |
| Calgary, Alberta |
| Birmingham, Alabama |
| Victoria, British Columbia |
| Fremont, CA |
| Danbury CT |
| Jacksonville FL |
| Orlando FL |
| Very Beach FL |
| Athens GA |
| Iowa City IA |
| Bloomington IL |
| Stockton, IL |
| Indianapolis IN |
| West Lafayette IN |
| Beverly MA |
| Billerica MA |
| Boston, CLF |
| Brewster MA |
| Cambridge, MA (Associate) Lexington MA |
| Newton MA |
| Plymouth MA |
| Sharon MA |
| Martha's Vinyard |
| Portland ME |
| Bloomfield Hills MI |
| Brighton MI |
| Detroit MI |
| Troy MI |
| Kalispell MT |
| Omaha NE |
| Concord NH |
| Albuquerque NM (Assistant) Bowling Green OH |
| Hamilton On |
| London ON |
| Portland OR (First) |
| Bethlehem PA |
| Meadville PA |
| Aiken SC |
| Sioux Falls SD |
| Houston TX (First) |
| Charlottesville VA |
| Newport News VA |
| Reston, VA |
| Edmonds WA |
| Eau Claire WI |
Thursday, March 11, 2010
the "Hot Stove"
Keith Kron -Transitions Director
Monday, March 01, 2010
Twittering
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Friday, January 08, 2010
Multi-Site Bibliography
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Continuing the dialogue on credentialing
Earl Koteen replies here to Wayne Arneson's post which is, here.
Friday, December 25, 2009
More on Ministerial Credentialing
Saturday, December 12, 2009
What Would I Do About Credentialing?
- The impact of credentialing on the time it takes to prepare for ministry, and the cost/benefits to Unitarian Universalism and individuals of that time.
- I myself am biased against the idea that the best way to figure out who is qualified to be a UU minister is a brief, high stakes interview. Maybe this is the only way, but it disadvantages the people who don't perform well and those who fall outside "the norm", whatever that happens to be at the moment. And really...isn't it basically out of sync with ministry, which is a deep, relational, long-form career?
- There have always been interesting congregational polity issues when the denomination "keeps the list of ministers" who are deemed qualified to serve congregations-who-are-free-to call-whom-they-wish. It seems to me that this issue comes down to two points. Firstly, there are some things that congregations just can't do very well, so denominations do them. Publishing RE material is an example. Doing the hard work of ministerial credentialing is another. But what exactly can denominations discern in ministerial candidates that search committees can't? I think we should give that a hard look. In his piece, Wayne talked a lot about what congregations want and need, but actually, I think we're both guessing on this score and doing some wishful thinking. I also think that there is a legitimate reason for denominations to care about the quality and preparation of "its" ministers, irrespective of what congregations want. Most congregations really don't care whether their ministers know how many districts there are in the UUA, or how the MFC is selected, but you could make the case that a denomination should care...at least that "its" ministers can generally answer and quickly find the specifics of these questions. However, I think that it would be best to be clearer and more transparent about who needs ministers to know what.
- Speaking of factual knowledge, I think that if we decide a certain level of factual knowledge is important, that written, comprehensive exams are much fairer to candidates than hit or miss questioning in a high tension environment and I think that this should be looked into.
- If ministry is one of many careers in which you can't really predict success until someone is actually doing it, (see this very interesting article) then our three part credentialing series is out of whack. Let's talk about that!
- Finally, any system we create has to be doable by the ordinary volunteers and staff that we can afford. At the moment most UU's couldn't possibly serve on the MFC; the work load is massive. Overworked volunteers making pressured decisions....this is not a recipe for quality. And I would like to see processes in place by which the process could be evaluated. Records, statistics, and open reporting is the friend of the excellence we all strive for.
A Modest Proposal on Credentialing
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Yet More Voices on Ministerial Credentialing
Wednesday, December 09, 2009
Blogging, Facebook, and Collegial Conversations on Credentialing
How We Got to our current ministerial Credentialing System: Wayne Arnason
The comments made thus far make me want to review my own understanding of the reason we have a centralized Ministerial Fellowship Committee system. As I understand it, it's because the representatives of congregations serving on the UUA Board (mostly lay people, with some ministers) decided that congregations needed some system of assurance that the diversity of ministers who might be candidates for their pulpits all meet some agreed-upon basic standards of competence, apart from and independent of the standards created by the seminaries or the ministers association, neither of which are subject to the control of the association of congregations. The pre-merger system that the Universalists had, which involved accreditation of ministers on a regional basis (more like what the much larger UCC uses) was rejected. My presumption is that this rejection happened in part because of a Unitarian penchant for more centralized control, but I also think that the representative of congregations rightly believed that the different geographic regions of the United States and Canada had different kinds and concentrations of congregations and therefore different capacities for doing this kind of in-care and credentialing in a consistent way. From the beginning, we had the premise that our search and settlement system would be an open continental process, without any geographic limitations associated with the region in which you currently live or were credentialed (as is the case with some other congregational polity settlement systems). The system we created at merger believed that a centralized system for ministerial settlement would work better over time for an association of congregations our size.
So imagine with me a conversation that goes through the logic of the system we currently have. Imagine a group of lay members of search committees being asked to design a UU system for ministerial accreditation from scratch. Let 's assume that they have figured out that a system with most of our current requirements has merit. (This is a big assumption, of course, and the MFC is currently planning to review how we read the Career Assessments and the CPE evaluations,) For purposes of this essay, let’s assume that we agree that a system that requires from candidates an M. Div. or equivalent, a required reading list, a CPE, an internship or its equivalent, and recommendations from suitable lay leaders, teachers, and ministers is one we have agreed on. So after that the conversation might go like this:
"Person A: So who reviews all this to make sure it's in order?
Person B: It would have to either be done by volunteers or a hired staff person. I guess it depends on whether you see the review’s purpose as just to check off these requirement on a list? Or would this staff person or a volunteer group have to go through all the documentation to assure that it was in order and had no red flags?
Person C: I wouldn't want it to just be a check list system. The evaluative materials can have a lot of variation in them. They would have to be read through. So can this be done by just one person? How many of these new ministers would we expect to have to handle in a year?
Person A: Well, over time, as our ministry grows, it wouldn't surprise me if we had several hundred ministers in preparation and as maybe sixty or seventy a year who would be ready to have their preparation evaluated.
Person B: It's more work than a staff person could do. We would need a few of them.
Person C: Is this really staff work? Isn't it likely that the staff people hired to oversee a credentialing system would be ministers? I think we'd need to have significant lay involvement in approving credentials if the purpose of this is to assure congregations that the minister that can apply to serve them have a basic standard of competency.
Person A: I guess ideally you would like a blended group of experienced ministers and lay people. So maybe you could have staff members assemble and even summarize the evaluative materials that needed to be read and send them to readers, maybe one lay and one minister? and if they agreed that the person's written material was good to go, they could enter in "fellowship" with the UUA and be recommended to congregations.
Person B: I guess that could work -- but would these two people never actually meet the candidate? I've been on a search committee before, and we read through several thoroughly prepared packets, but the choice we eventually made for who would be our minister was finally influenced by the interviews we held, and not just by the packet. Don't you think that the persons reading over the evaluative materials should also meet the person at least once and talk with them about their preparation? That's more like what really happens in a search.
Person C: That sounds like a good idea to me. But how would you feel about your minister being chosen by a group of only two people on a search committee? If we're going to create interviews I'm not sure the opinions of two people is enough when it comes to whether we “see a minister” in that person. It’s hard to get much diversity in a group of two! Maybe the interview should be done a full committee of people, at least six or seven.
Person A: A national committee of people? Sounds expensive! Why couldn't it be done by regional volunteer groups? Maybe you could avoid the interview if the people in a regional volunteer group already knew the candidate?
Person B: That could work in a region that has the occasional ministerial candidate coming out of the congregations in a district. But what about districts that contain one of the seminaries that many UU students attend? What about those with large congregations that might have three or four candidates for ministry emerge over a period of a few years? How do regional volunteer groups work when a candidate for ministry has left the area to attend a seminary or where there are many candidates in a small geographic area? Does each have their own in-care evaluative team? How many volunteers would this need? Who would gather them and to whom would they be accountable?
Person B: A centralized national evaluative group would likely be less expensive than the cost of supporting district based committees. If you go with the premise that an interview is valuable, then a regionally based system would still require face to face meetings and the expenses they incur. I guess the cost would depend on how big the regions were. I'd be more comfortable with a system where I knew that no matter where a person went to seminary, UU or non-UU, and no matter what size or style of home church they came out of, they all get reviewed by a group of people who have developed common standards and disciplines from this review.
Person C: When would this review and interview happen? Maybe we could have a local checklist system that allows a person who has completed all the requirements to be ordained and begin working? The congregation or agency would evaluate the person after three years and then the person would be interviewed by a national credentialing body that would grant them final fellowship.
Person A: I'm not sure whether I'd want my congregation to be served by someone whose preparation had only been affirmed by a seminary or regional body. That is, unless it was someone we already knew who had a history with our congregation? I'm starting to get the feeling that regional credentialing would somehow need to be matched with a regional settlement system, and I'm not sure that the UUA is large enough for that to work. The regional volunteer demands on lay leaders and ministers are already pretty heavy."
Here ends this imaginary conversation that suggests to me the way that the logic of the current system has evolved. The values that inform it seem to me to be consistency of standards and good stewardship of limited resources and volunteer time. As we continue this discussion about credentialing, what I’m hearing from the President and the Board is that the reason we’re doing this is to insure we can attract and form new ministers who can not only serve the congregations we have but also help transform and create the congregations we need for the future. While suggestions for reform of particular parts of the current process are and will be welcome, I would like to see them framed by consideration of the resources required to make the change and the payoff in terms of formation of the ministers we need.
Wayne Arnason